They are as different as birds and bats.
Peek at their plates at any family function and you’ll know. She helps herself to rice, fish curry and gajar ka halwa; he prefers bread, boiled vegetables, grilled fish and cheesecake.
Roopa Kudva, managing director and chief executive officer of India’s biggest rating agency, Crisil Ltd, is the antithesis of Vivek Kudva, managing director, India and CEEMEA, of Franklin Templeton Asset Management (India) Pvt Ltd. Yet, they have enjoyed each other’s company for 27 years.
Their romance, which blossomed at the Indian Institute of Management-Ahmedabad (IIM-A), was not a Mills & Boon one. Roopa Phene, one of the 18 girls among 200-odd in the 1986 batch at IIM-A, found Vivek, a distant relation of K.V. Kamath, “calm, composed, kind, and always supportive—willing to teach all”.

Roopa liked the “always smiling” Vivek but it bothered her that he was four years her senior—too old to be her husband. Nevertheless, they decided they would get married once out of IIM-A. In fact, her brother and two cousins landed up at the campus and, in front of others, addressed a hugely embarrassed Vivek as “jijaji”, even touching his feet before he knew what was happening (this brother got into IIM-A four years later and fell in love with a batchmate whom he eventually married. Roopa’s parents now call IIM the Indian Institute of Matrimony!).
"A DEMOCRACY OF TWO: Roopa: In the end, Vivek’s decision prevails. Vivek: No, hers does."
"WIDE ANGLE, SHARP FOCUS: Roopa takes care of the personal aspects. For instance, she takes care of the health and education of the two daughters of their maid, who lives with them. Vivek looks after the commercial aspects, such as paying salaries to the household help, bills, etc. He takes the investment decisions. Roopa decides on breakfast and dinner but Vivek will have to call the plumber if the geyser is not working. Roopa is a micromanager; Vivek delegates—both at office and home. "
"CROSS-CURRENTS: Not many—most of Vivek’s buddies are Roopa’s friends and vice versa. "
"DO NOT OPEN: They fight on where to eat but ultimately end up trying out every place. Ditto about films—they see all the films that get good reviews. Incidentally, Vivek hated sushi till Roopa convinced him to try it; now he enjoys it."
Vivek earns more than Roopa but she has a higher public profile. “Franklin Templeton is a private company. Hers is a listed firm. She needs to be in the public glare,” Vivek says with his disarming smile. They both give each other enough space, don’t talk shop at home and can spend hours together without talking, just looking at each other and the Arabian Sea from their home on the Worli seafront.









